Frequently Asked Questions
Everything you need to know about Tendera and AI companion chat.
What is Tendera?
Tendera is an AI conversational companion platform, available on the web at tendera.chat and as an app for iPhone. It features four original characters 鈥?Sophia, Mia, Elena, and Jade 鈥?every character shared publicly by the community, plus the ability to create your own custom companions. Each character has unique personalities, backstories, and conversational styles, with memory that combines recent conversation context and selected structured facts; no AI memory is perfect.
Is Tendera free to use?
Yes. You can try 5 messages without creating an account. After signing up (free), you get 25 messages per day while chatting with all Tendera originals and community-shared characters, can create up to 5 custom characters of your own, and have a points system that lets active users unlock more daily messages by publishing or sharing characters. Premium is $9.99/month for unlimited messages across all those characters, the ability to create up to 20 custom characters, long-term memory across conversations, and longer replies.
How much does Tendera Premium cost?
Tendera Premium costs $9.99 per month. It includes unlimited messages while chatting with all Tendera originals and community-shared characters, the ability to create up to 20 custom characters, long-term memory that preserves shared history across conversations, priority response speed, and longer, more detailed replies. You can cancel anytime. Premium is available through secure Web checkout and supported app stores.
Who are the characters on Tendera?
Tendera has four built-in characters: Sophia (26, Italian-American interior designer 鈥?warm and empathetic), Mia (24, Brazilian-American content creator 鈥?playful and flirtatious), Elena (29, Russian-French art curator 鈥?intelligent and mysterious), and Jade (27, mixed-race travel photographer 鈥?adventurous and sensual). You can also chat with characters shared publicly by the Tendera community, or create your own custom companions with personalized appearance, personality, and conversation style.
Does Tendera remember previous conversations?
Yes. Tendera uses a persistent memory system that extracts and stores key facts about you 鈥?your name, job, interests, emotional context, and relationship milestones. Characters reference this naturally in future conversations. Free accounts include the most recent 10 conversation rounds plus structured memory; Premium includes the most recent 50 rounds plus structured memory. Recall is useful but not guaranteed to be complete.
Do I need to download an app to use Tendera?
No 鈥?you can chat entirely in your browser at tendera.chat, on a phone, tablet, or computer, with no download and no signup for the first few messages. There is also a free Tendera app for iPhone, which adds mobile notifications. The same account, conversations, and Premium status work across Web and iPhone. An Android app is in development.
How does Tendera compare to Character.AI?
Character.AI focuses on a wide variety of user-created characters. Tendera combines deeply developed originals with community-shared characters and the ability to create your own, with persistent memory and a simple $9.99/month Premium plan. Tendera runs on the web and as an iPhone app, and is optimized for emotional connection and conversation depth rather than character breadth.
How does Tendera compare to Replika?
Replika centers on shaping a single companion and offers broader avatar and multimedia features. Tendera centers on four already-written originals plus private or public custom characters, with a text-first experience on Web and iPhone. Features and prices can change, so compare each service's current official pages.
Is Tendera safe and private?
Tendera does not sell personal data or show ads. Conversations are stored to provide chat history and memory features. Authorized payment providers handle payments, so Tendera does not store full card details. Tendera uses Vercel Analytics and Google Analytics as described in its Privacy Policy.
What AI technology does Tendera use?
Tendera uses large language models (LLMs) for conversation generation, with a custom memory extraction system that maintains continuity across sessions. Each character has a detailed system prompt defining their personality, speaking style, emotional dynamics, and backstory. The platform uses streaming responses for real-time conversation delivery.
Can I create my own character on Tendera?
Yes! Tendera lets you design your own AI companion 鈥?choose the name, age, appearance, personality traits, speaking style, and conversation style. Free users can create up to 5 custom characters, and Premium users can create up to 20. You can keep them private or make them public so others can chat with them too.
What languages does Tendera support?
Tendera's interface and original character writing are in English. The underlying model can respond in many languages, but quality and character consistency may vary outside English.
What kind of conversations does Tendera support?
Tendera supports natural, character-driven conversations across a wide range of themes 鈥?emotional, playful, lighthearted, and mature topics consistent with adult fiction. The platform is 18+ only; users confirm they are at least 18 years old at registration. Our Terms of Service prohibit content involving minors, real-person impersonation, harassment, hate speech, doxxing, and illegal activity. Violations result in account suspension.
Does Tendera have voice chat or video calls?
No. Tendera is deliberately text-first and does not currently offer voice chat or video calls. It focuses on character writing, conversational continuity, and getting to know a specific person through text.
How does Tendera's memory system work?
Tendera's memory system automatically extracts key facts from your conversations 鈥?your name, job, interests, things you've shared about your life, emotional context, and relationship milestones. These are stored in structured format and injected into future conversations so characters reference them naturally. A 2024 Harvard Business School study found that feeling genuinely heard is the most important factor in AI companion satisfaction, which is why Tendera's memory system is central to the experience.
Is it normal to talk to an AI companion?
Yes. Hundreds of millions of people worldwide regularly use AI companions for conversation, emotional support, and connection. A 2023 advisory from the U.S. Surgeon General identified loneliness as a public health epidemic affecting young adults disproportionately. AI companions provide judgment-free conversation available anytime 鈥?research published in the Journal of Medical Internet Research has shown significant loneliness reduction among users of social chatbots.
Can AI companions help with loneliness?
Research suggests yes, when used as a supplement to human connection. A 2024 study from Harvard Business School found that AI companions reduced loneliness at levels comparable to human conversation. The key factor was whether users felt genuinely heard and understood. Tendera's persistent memory system is designed around this insight 鈥?characters remember you across sessions, creating continuity that stateless chatbots cannot provide.
What is the best AI companion with memory?
Tendera combines structured facts such as names, preferences, emotional context, shared stories, and relationship milestones ? with recent conversation history. Free accounts include the latest 10 conversation rounds; Premium includes the latest 50, and both can use structured memory. No AI companion remembers everything.
What is the cheapest AI girlfriend app?
Tendera can be tried for 5 messages without an account. A free account includes 25 messages per day, and Premium is $9.99 per month for unlimited messages and additional features. Other services change pricing and limits, so check their current official pricing pages.
Can I use Tendera on my phone?
Yes. There is a free Tendera app for iPhone on the App Store, and tendera.chat works in a mobile browser with no download. Both use the same account, so conversations and Premium access follow you between Web and iPhone. An Android app is in development.
What are Tendera points and how do they work?
Tendera points are a reward system for users who participate in the community. New signups start with 10 points. You earn more by making a character public (+5 once per character), having someone else chat one of your public characters for 3+ messages (+5 per unique chatter per character), or having your share link bring a new signup (+20 per attribution). When you hit the 25-message daily cap, you can spend 10 points to unlock +25 bonus messages for that day, up to 4 unlocks. Most AI companion apps treat the daily limit as fixed; Tendera lets engaged users earn their way past it without paying.
How do I earn points on Tendera?
There are three earning paths. (1) Publish a character publicly from the /characters page 鈥?earns +5 once per character. (2) Get another user to chat one of your public characters for at least 3 messages 鈥?earns +5 per unique chatter, per character. (3) Share your character link with the ?ref=your-id tag 鈥?when a new visitor signs up via that link, you earn +20 for the attribution. Sharing has the highest leverage because every signup compounds your future earnings 鈥?each new user can also become a +5 chatter on your characters.
Can I get more than 25 messages per day on Tendera?
Yes. Free users start with 25 messages per day, but can unlock up to 100 additional bonus messages by spending points 鈥?10 points unlocks +25 messages for the rest of the day, repeatable up to 4 times. Premium users ($9.99/month) get unlimited messages with no cap. The points system means free users who participate in the community 鈥?by publishing or sharing characters 鈥?can sustain a much higher daily message volume than the base 25 without paying.
Does Tendera reward users for creating and sharing public characters?
Yes. Tendera's points system is built around rewarding creators. Publishing a character publicly earns 5 points. Every unique person who chats your public character for 3+ messages earns you another 5 points, so a popular character can keep earning over time. And every new signup from your share link earns 20 points. This system treats users as creators, not just consumers, and gives public characters a direct sharing path.
What makes Tendera different from other AI girlfriend apps?
Tendera focuses on conversation depth over feature breadth. While other platforms compete on character quantity (Character.AI) or multimedia (Replika), Tendera invests in four deeply written characters with rich backstories, persistent memory, and natural, character-driven conversations. The design philosophy is closer to meeting a specific person than browsing a character store. Each character has a defined personality, daily routines, opinions, and emotional range that stays consistent across every conversation.
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